Relationship Between Helper & Helpee

     Hey guys! In previous lessons we have learned about helping relationship. As a helper, we should have a strong bonding with our clients. But how?? BUILD A TRUST. For sure they will need some time to build a trust on their helper. Some people are really hard to trust others especially an outsider. That's the reason why we should shows our sincerity and make they feel comfortable with us as a helper.
     I can see that people may judged and make many assumptions about us whether in positively or negatively and we do will faced this matter with our clients in the future. But we need to put it aside and try our best to get coped with this situation. If we shows our positive aura, I'm sure that our client can feel it and easily build a good relationship with us. Having a good relationship with others especially with or client also can showed that we are an effective helper. I think i'll stop here. Till then, bye! :)

Alyeca bt. Eric (51158)

Learning a New Skills

Hey guys! 23 September 2015 is our third BHS class and its getting more fun as we learn a new skills in helping other people. So far I can see that its quite easy to apply all the skills that we have learn in our daily life if we are a real helper. Every single skills that we have learn is really meaningful and important as it is a guide line for us to be a good counselor. I feel really grateful and I can considered that we are lucky to be the chosen one for studying this subject. Although it's kind of hot in the class, but seriously I can't wait for the next class and can't wait to learn a new unit!

Alyeca Eric (51158)

Basic Helping Skills is Around Us

Hey everyone! Basic Helping Skills is near to everyone but the diffrence is whether you are an effective helper or not. I've never knew it before untill I attend this class. So far, this subject attract my attention because what we've learn in this class can be apply in our daily life and routine. What Dr.Fa says is true, that is if we're a real helper we will help someone spontaneously without asking him or her for our help. Ask for me, i'm willing to help other people without any repay because by helping others I felt that i've just save their day! But of course you need to be sincere as a helper. By the way, I do like it when Dr.Fa open her old casses and experiences as a counselor. As she narrates it, I kept on wondering whether I can be a good counselor in the future. Ok, I think i'll stop here and i'll make my update next time. Till then, bye!




Alyeca Eric (51158)